Job loss – Survive & Succeed

June 3rd, 2009 Vijaianand No Comments »

These are tough times to many families and individuals. Millions of jobs have been lost in the past year or so leaving many people depend just on their unemployement insurance to support their families. I know how hard it is without a job if only one person brings home the bread. I have experienced myself. It gets even tougher for self employed who can’t even claim the unemployment insurance. 

Some what of a good news is , it has slowed down quite a bit in the past month or so. Obviously, it has to slow down because companies can’t throw out every body otherwise they cannot survive. Also slowing of layoff’s doesn’t means jobs are getting created.  It just companies reached a saturation point stripping down so much and they cannot do anymore job cuts. 


Many youngsters who never faced this kinda recession is facing tough times handling this current situation. First off, it is really hard to take it in when you get laid off after working  your butt off(excuse my language) for the company.

You tend to think, they will call you back again. No, they are not going atleast for a year. They just moved on without you so you should consider moving on too.  It sucks practicaly but you shouldn’t loose hope and lose heart. Things change and you should change as well and continue your path to persue your dreams.

This blog might seem bit late but it is not. I intentionally want to wait and weigh in on the options so I can give some useful pointers from my experience. It is easy to just make a blog copying from other websites but I don’t want to do that(I never do that) because Jobloss is a tough one and I want to share the same feelings when I talk about it.

So here go my 5 good Survival tips which might help you.

1. Unemployement Insurance – If you previous employed (not self employed), you are eligible for unemployment insurance from your state. If you havn’t claimed it, go ahead and do it. You are wasting the money you are eligible to get since your employer paid for it. Sorry self employed folks, we don’t have this liberty and I know it sucks.

2. Cut all your unwanted expenses. Whether you used to go to movies every week or restaurant for family dinner, just think about cutting it for a while. It will help to survive with your funds for longer time until you find a good job.

3. Just say to yourself “I can’t afford at this time” if you and impulse buyer. These strong words will help you stay away from things which you really don’t need to survive at this moment.

4. Don’t dip into your credit card and make things worse. Use your emergency funds which is especially meant to tackle this situation. Especially self employed like me, you should have atleast 6 months of built up funds to take care of this jobless period.

5. Exercise and Hobbies – Try not to keep thinking about the lost job. It will let you down and you won’t be able to attend interviews propertly. Add a positive attitude and go to Gym to catch up on your work out schedule. Try to spend time on your hobbies or passion to invent yourself and reenergize your thoughts. It will sure come handy during interviews.

Here is my 5 Success Tips which might help you to get out of the loss.

1. Leave no stone unturned. Always open to meet people. Attend Job Fairs, call your recruiter and friends to check on the job openings and opportunities.

2. Don’t hesitate to follow up and stay on top of your contacts. Everybody got their own priorities. For you, getting a job is the first priority but it might not be the case of your recruiter or contact. So try to call them up for any updates or latest job openings. Don’t feel embraced to keep calling. Perseverance pays off over time.

3. Always Stay connnected – Use LinkedIn, Facebook or Myspace to stay in touch with your previous coworkers, friends, college mates, chruck groups or religious groups. A lead can come from anywhere. By staying connected with as many as possible helps you get as many leads as possible. In this bad job market, Staying connected with many people is very important.

4. Take a temporary contract job or consultant position if you are not getting permanent job offers. I know many don’t like to go this route but it helps to pay bills and at same time you are not sitting idle. It might even turn out to be a good project you never know. No harm in trying.

5. Revaluate yourself  – This might be a better time to revaluate yourself and do something different if you are forced in this career. I have seen real examples from people who got laid changed their career from IT consultant to Entreprenuer or small business owner. If its too late and want to stick with same career. Try to Brush up your skills and take up some petty projects during the downtime from sites like getFreelancer.com, 99design.com. It helps to keep your skills shining instead of getting rusty.

These are some of my own practical tips. I also came across an interesting and optimistic writeup by a job loser. It’s a  “Thank you for layoff” note to the employer by the laid off employee. Check it out. It might add a different perspective to your thoughts.

Never ever give up and Keep trying!!

DOES PACKING LUNCH REALLY WORKS?

May 19th, 2009 Vijaianand No Comments »

You hear this slogan very often these days in many websites and blogs. The matra is strong and clear, “PACK YOUR LUNCH“. I am a full supporter of this saving money strategy and the idea works great to save good amount money of your money which can help fund for your kids education over the years.

Are you jealous of Indian collegues who works with you bringing lunches from home everyday? Let me reveal the truth behind it. First, their wife don’t work so they cook very good food. Secondly, they are money conscious folks who like to save and finally they are used to carrying lunch packs from their school days. It becomes a habit over time so they don’t like to eat outside very much.  If you can try packing lunch frequently, it can become a habit which is good for your health and as well for your pocket.

What do you exactly mean  by “Pack your Lunch”?

Packing your lunch doesn’t have to be a time consuming task. Many of you think packing lunch means preparing the lunch in the morning and pack when you are trying to hurry and get to work on time. It is surely not going to happen and you eventually loose the interest of packing lunch.

No, you don’t have to prepare and pack the lunch fresh all the time. It not about preparing fresh food for lunch which is just one motive. Pack your lunch just means bring lunch from home saving the expense of spending outside. It can be a healthy frozen food which you bought from grocery stores, home made leftovers, freshly made salad or quick sandwich. It can be anything which makes you savior and satisfy your hunger during lunch time. If it doesn’t satisfy you, you will again go towards searching for junk food.

How do I start?

You can start by doing few days a week so you don’t miss out on your restaurant or fast food. By starting slow, you are making a smooth transition helping your body to get used to this new habit. This way, you avoid any upset effect to your body. Just start with leftovers  2 days a week like Monday and Wednesday. Then add one day per month until you are satified with your arrangement to have 5 days from home or keep friday as a going out lunch day.

I bring lunch 3 days a week – 3 day left overs, 1 day frozen food and 1 day submay 6 inch sandwich. Once a month, I go out with friends on friday.

Why many don’t like to pack their lunch?

Many people think that packing their lunch is a shame and crime. They don’t want to heat up or make their food for lunch. They just want to be fed. They also think, it shows your are frugal. Let me tell, there is nothing wrong being frugal. You only should avoid being cheap. There is a lot of difference between being frugal and cheap. According to dictionary.com, frugal means  “prudently saving or sparing; not wasteful.”  cheap is defined as “stingy; miserly.”

I know its more wordy explanation. To be simple in my terms, frugal people spend rightly(for needs), save wisely(for wants) and give graciously. But cheap people, they don’t like to spend even for their needy things. Even if they spend, they tried to save money buying cheap items. They also don’t

So being frugal is not a bad thing at all. Don’t give silly excuses like others here in the website.

Is it really worth packing my lunch?

Yes. It is really worth saving time, money and your health. You save time atleast an hour going out which can be spend efficiently. It helps you to eat healthy and good. Finally the important factor, saves you money. Even if you go out for lunching in cheap chinese buffet, you end up paying min. $10 with tips. For 5 days, its 5 * 10 = $50/week * 4 weeks = $200/ month * 12 = $2400 a year. Thats apx 3-5% of your gross yearly income.

If just reduce to start going out only once a week, it will only cost you $40/month and $480 a year which is a saving of $1920. Thats a good amount to be save up for your kids education or put away for retirement. You can check out how much you can save by packing lunch using our calculator.

If you are bored of getting lunch everyday, you can try going to sandwich place like Subway  once a week. Subway now offers $5 foot long. You can save $2 by bringing your own chips and drinks by buying it bulk from Walmart or wholesale stores.  

If you a reasonably family of 3 or 4, you can consider becoming a member in wholesale clubs like SAMS or COSTCO. Costco is my favorite because of its Quality products and reasonable price range. You might have to pay the membership of $50 but you will sure end saving 2-3 times of the membership cost or even more every year by buying things in patties, sandwich buns and so forth. Be careful and don’t get tempted to buy new items introduced every week in these clubs. 

Food is an important entity in our life which we tend to spend money every day. So it is easy to spend wisely and rightly and see quick savings at this tough times, helping to keep more money in your bank account. 

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Learn lessons from Scams and Scandals

May 11th, 2009 Vijaianand No Comments »

Today, I just heared over the news, there is a new scam emerged out of the Swine flu epidemic. Scammers are selling fake medicine/pills as cure for swine flu or H1N1 virus even there is no current cure available according to medical experts.

What a shame? But for Scammers, there is no shame and they don’t care about others. They always look out for opportunities to make money by implementing their trick and tactics to lure common people taking advantage of  their fear and need.

Scams History

Scams  go way back in history to 16th and 17th centuries. We only know few scams which happened in the past few decades like Barry Minkow,ZZZZ Best carpet cleaning company become $200 million dollar giant in 1980s. MCI Worlcomm, Enron in 1990’s. Samuel Israel III, the founder of Bayou hedge fund who pleaded guilty running a $400 million fraud at the Bayou Group, Bernie Madoff Ponzi scheme caught for $50 billion fraud, India’s Satyam founder Raju for $80 billion accounting fraud and Allen Stanford CD fraud in recent years. 

Psychologist Stephen Greenspan who specializies in guillability research unveils a much longer history of scams and ponzi scheme in his interesting article. He also noted lot of interesting resumblences of today’s scams to the past ones.


How can it actually spreads?

People are always greedy to make more money of small amount. May be some are not really greedy but they just want to get more and grow the money better instead of putting in the  bank savings account or in away to avoids stocks but still want to make money. Thats why they go to hedge funds, financial advisors and investments firms to help them out.

Not everyone is smart when it comes to money and sometimes we all do mistakes without knowing it.  So the hedge fund managers and investment advisor take this as an advantage and go on a ride playing their bets. These scams works and penetrates the trust worthy groups like chruch groups, local community groups by word of mouth. One person get into it and finds its reasonably trust worthy for a while. He spreads the word to others in the group and slowly everybody gets in the scheme in no time.

In his article, Greenspan also talks about four important factors on why we keep falling for financial scams. They are Situation, Cognition, Personality and Emotions. You can read more about his analysis at my post in the Jan news section.

What can you do to avoid?

1. If it is too good to be true, it is too good to be true. If somebody promises to sell land in Houston where the temparature will never go up above 70 anytime in summer. That’s what you should suspicious. Similarly if somebody promises in an informercial you can lose weight by just sitting in your couch and doing some jingles. You shouldn’t dump enough to believe it. You should out right know that is not going to work. If you not knowledgeable, try to gather information from internet and other friends who knows better. Don’t go alone.

2. Find the right financial advisor.

There are different kinds of Financial advisors. One who get paid as fees for investment advise, one who gets paid commission for the selling the investment product and last one who gets both.  These days product selling comes first than advice. So find an independent advisor who has knowledge of all products and not just one and only sheds light and advise you to take action instead of selling the product. Choose an advisor who gives importance to giving you advice first and look out for the betterment of your asset.  You can find the certified advisors at cfp.net

3. Not all CD’s are made equal.

I still see in papers that many CD’s(Certificate of Deposit) who promises to return 4-5% when banks can afford to give 2% for 1 year. That is still comparable and achievable thru other instruments but be careful who promises 8-10%. Also try to check on the investment companies whom you are investing and whether its insured or not. Try to ask their FDIC insuranced before you put lot of your money.

4. Avoid Costly Mistakes

Don’t go overboard in putting all your money with one bank or single advisor investment portfolio. Try to distribute it. CDARS is another safe heaven to distrubute your savings in many banks so you don’t end up in one bank if its get  screwed. It is insured as per FDIC regulations in each banks.

5. Finally, you are the right person to manage your money.

As I always say, its your money and you are the best person to look after it. You worked hard enough to earn every dollar and you know the worth of each dollar. It is good get some valuable advice but you are the single most credible person to manage your money and grow for your bright future.

I hope you learned some good learns out of this bad scammer episode. Every walk of our life has some thing to teach us. Watch closely and learn to be wise.  Please do share your thoughts and comments.

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